Hi Ladies
When I was interviewed on the Lara King Show on radio Humberside this week (Tues 11th May) one of the questions Lara asked me was how important accessorising was. I replied that it was very imortant, without having the chance to go into much detail.
As I know that accessorising is an area that many of us struggle to get right I thought it would be worth offering some advice about this on my blog.
You can change the whole look of an outfit just by using accessories. Get accessorising right and you will look fabulous, but get it wrong the results can be disastrous, regardless of how much money you have spent.
One golden rule is to buy your outfit first and then choose your accessories, not the other way round.
Many women say they don’t accessorise because they don’t know how or don’t have time; but the basic trick is to balance simple with detailed. This means a simple outfit should be accessorised with more ornate accessories. And a more detailed outfit should be teamed with simple accessories. Wearing a plain outfit with plain accessories gives a boring look but by mixing simple with more detailed you strike a balance and give you and your outfit interest. If you have a 'fussy' outfit and then add lots of accessories you can easily end up with the Dame Edna Everidge look!


plain dress + print handbag


print dress + plain handbag
Accessories can be used to draw attention to your best features – eg if you have great legs then how about wearing attention-grabbing, fab shoes to show off those great legs. If you have a tiny waist then why not wear a large belt as a focal point to show-off your waist. For those with a great cleavage then an ornate necklace will draw attention there.
On the other hand, fancy and detailed accessories or indeed any detail is best avoided in an area you want to hide. If you have a more than ample bosom, and if you don’t want to draw attention to it, then it’s not a good idea to carry your handbag so it falls in that area. A short necklace on a short neck will draw attention to your neck, so better to have a longer necklace.
Another consideration with accessories is that of scale - basically the categories are small, medium and large - and whatever your own scale is - small, medium or large, determines the scale of accessories you should be wearing, although there are exceptions to this rule. A small woman with a BIG personality can carry a large handbag - think of Barbara Windsor - she would look ridiculous with a tiny handbag,
There are so many tips and tricks to learn about accessorising and getting it right will pay dividends – I hope I have raised your awareness and whetted your appetite, there is a wealth of information out there in books and on the Internet.
If you want any further advice on accessorising or anything else related to image then please do contact me, I will be pleased to help you. If ladies are interested in learning more about accessorising I will put on a workshop - if that is something you would like then please let me know.
It's our ladies fellowship weekend away tomorrow, so hopefully, the weather will be good, but if not I am sure it won't spoil things for us - 16 ladies in the beautiful Lincolnshire countryside of Claxby, with lots of food and chocolate, no housework and no children - it will be GREAT & LOTS OF FUN TOO!
Have a lovely weekend, I hope the sun will shine on you too!
Julie X